The
teenagers, like us, often get frustrated because of our sensitivity to new
things and quite often act without considering any further to the future. The
lack of knowledge and experience makes us easy to fall. Ironically, we
sometimes don’t know how to face our failures and then get frustrated.
Many things
can make us feel sorry, painful, and defeated such as failing in one subject or
more, failing in a examination, being punished by parents or teachers , being dumped
by our boy/girl friends, and other cases. Such failures often force us to take
a short cut in the way of expressing our disappointment. We usually run away
towards smoking, alcohols, drugs, and even committing a suicide.
Actually,
there are a lot of things --- much better things --- that we can do to get our
self-confidence back after failing. One thing for sure is that we are not
alone. Many people may fail after or even before doing their maximum effort. We
should realize that failure is a common thing that can happen to anyone. After
realizing that, we should get help. We don’t need to be ashamed to share our
problems with a one that care with us. They can give us support and even
direction to live this life and to put it back to it’s track again.
Furthermore, we have to regain our strength and get back to work or study. We
have to show others that we aren’t enslaved by our own failures.
However, the
important thing that we have to do is to return and pray to God for his
blessing because God only shows the right path and in humans hand lies the
effort to get through that path
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